Learning to Move On

Earlier this week, the New York Yankees announced they signed two-time All-Star, Marcus Stroman to a guaranteed two-year contract worth $37 million. For some, this was shocking news due to the shaky history between Stroman and Yankees general manager, Brian Cashman. Cashman had previously entertained the idea of trading for Stroman when he was pitching for the Toronto Blue Jays in 2019, but ultimately stated publicly that he “didn’t think would be a difference-maker.”  Despite this unfavorable comment, Stroman has gone on record saying he and Cashman have buried the hatchet from their past dealings. Stroman commented during a Zoom call this week, “Me and Cashman kind of hashed out whatever it was that we had from a few years ago. We kind of laughed about it and we moved on.” With many athletes known for their big egos, it's refreshing to see that Stroman isn't holding a grudge against Cashman for something he did in the past. As followers of Jesus, our lives should be characterized by a willingness to forgive others and “move on” when they've wronged us or sinned against us. In 1 Corinthians 13, the Apostle Paul beautifully explains some of the characteristics and qualities of true love. In verse 5, he states, “... keeps no record of wrongs” (1 Corinthians 13:5b; NIV). Even when we say we've forgiven someone, later on, we can be tempted to remind that person of the wrongs they’ve committed against us. The Bible makes it very clear, however, that such “record-keeping” is not in line with the nature of love. When we find it difficult to move on and not keep a record of what someone has done to us, we should consider what our lives would be like if God constantly reminded us of our past sins every time we stumble. Since there's no shortage of wrongs we've committed against a holy God, that should make us incredibly grateful for the kindness and mercy we've been shown in Christ, and willingly “move on” from the sins of others. Today, let’s rejoice in the undeserved forgiveness, kindness, and mercy given to us in Christ. Let's also do away with the record of wrongs we've been keeping against other people, demonstrating the same mercy and forgiveness we've received. I’m Matt Osborne, and you can UNPACK that! PRAYER: Heavenly Father, thank you for the kindness and forgiveness You've demonstrated to me. Please help me to sincerely forgive those who have wronged me and not keep a record of their sins. May You be glorified in the mercy and grace I extend to others. In Jesus’ name, I pray, Amen.